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September 25, 2007
Valdyk the Warrior
From the Marine Corps Kids blog, here's a note from an expectant mom, married to a Marine and a former Marine herself:
Thank you so much for all you do. I do a lot of volunteer work for the government and am usually on the "giving" end of this all so this is a new unique experience for me. I am so extremely grateful and thankful. Since I have not been able to work my normal job due to my health and preserving Valdryk's it has caused such a strain on our family. I can't wait until he is born and safe in his little bassinet so I can contribute once again wholly and financially to my family. |
Check out the Marine Corps Kids blog for the rest of the story.
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September 21, 2007
If mothers ruled the world
Dr. Helen has an interesting post up today at Pajamas Media titled "If Moms Ran the World" in response to Sally Field's rant at the Emmy Awards earlier this week. Here's a snippet:
Sally Field and her ilk don't really mean they want just any mom or woman to run the world, what she really meant when she talked about moms taking over is that leftist women should run the world. Notice that the women who are always talking about how great and different things would be if women were in charge never mention real women leaders like Condi Rice or Margaret Thatcher because they are conservatives. Unlike some leftist women who think that their sex puts them beyond the human traits of aggressiveness and violence, Rice and Thatcher understand that the realities of national security mean that negotiation and "making nice" with the schoolyard bully does not always work. |
I left a preliminary comment, but am expanding it here. I am a real Marine Mom, unlike Fields who plays a military mom on TV, and my son did three tours in Iraq. After dealing with war protestors back home, many of whom took it upon themselves to "educate" me on why war was always wrong and why my son joined only because he had no other options (so wrong), I can tell you that it is a very good thing that the mothers of our troops (and not the ones that play them on TV) do not get to pick and choose who their sons protect and defend.
If this country were invaded by a foreign power, those who carry peace signs and sing 60's protest songs would be the first ones squawking for protection from the military they had spent their lives denigrating. At a recent rally where the pro-troops signs were on the north side of the street, facing the anti war signs, I was talking with a reporter when a small group saw the microphone and started screaming anti-war slogans. I smiled and let them finish and the reporter asked if it bothered me. I told her that one of things my son was fighting to protect and defend was their right to stand on a public street and make asshats of themselves. It gave me an opportunity to provide a nice little sound bite to the reporter, pointing out that their right to dissent was a freedom bought and paid for with the blood, sweat, and lives of brave men and women over the past 230 years who looked at this country and decided that there were certain things worth fighting for. The reporter turned the microphone off and the dissenters didn't get a chance to rebut. Too bad. I usually don't get that polemic but hey. They interrupted.
Recently, I attended an event in order to promote troop support activities. I had to park several blocks away and had my chair, table, display board, bag with flyers and information, etc - no problem - once you've been a single mom, you've learned to balance any load. A guy walked up and asked if my opinion on the war and I said I was pro-troops. He sneered and said that he would have helped me carry my stuff if I'd been smarter. I told him that the troops, including my son, had been supporting his freedom to dissent and I didn't expect to be treated any better from him than he treated the troops. A couple of people waiting to cross the street laughed at him and helped me carry my stuff. He wasn't amused.
I've also been recruited by Code Pinksters. That group has really taken the fun out of wearing shades of rose. It's a funny thing about these folks who say they support the troops but not their mission. I've personally invited them to prove it by helping with our troop support projects. I've never seen one show up yet. But there are always lots of moms and dads who love and support their sons and daughters who wear the uniforms of this country's armed forces. Military parents who planned for college, not boot camp. But when their child made the decision to protect and serve, they proudly - and loudly - applauded the extraordinary courage that it takes to serve this country during a time of war.
Would there be wars if mothers ruled the world? Of course - not everything can be solved over milk and cookies. I was vehemently anti-spanking, but when my toddler ran out in the street, I got his attention with a swift swat. He never did that again. Try that on a global scale with someone like Saddam and you realize that sometimes, the most efficient way to make things better is to go in and clean house. How many lives have been saved because of strong men like my son, and Connie's son, and Mary Helen's son, and Kendra's son, and Molly's daughter, and Linda's son, and on and on and on - these Marines and soldiers and sailors who put their own self-interests on hold to serve. These young men and women are the real heroes of this country . . . . and their deeds aren't scripted but authentic. And I don't think that Hollywood will ever understand that.
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September 20, 2007
Congratulations to MCFF!
We were selected as the America Supports You Homefront Organization of the Week last week. Here's a link to the newsletter.
The Marine Corps Family Foundation is dedicated to supporting our Marines and other troops through various projects. Operation Santa sends filled Christmas stockings and other gifts to deployed troops. Operation Marine Corps Kids sends care packages to the families of deployed troops when babies are born while the dad is away. Operation Never Forgotten will soon launch a series of video billboards in Las Vegas and other cities. For more information, check out our Foundation website.
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We are winning, we are really winning
On September 5th, Major General (sel) Jack Kelly, recently returned from Iraq, spoke to the San Diego Military Advisory Council. About 200 members heard a speech that should be required reading by every citizen of this country. Here is his speech - do read the entire thing and then share it with your friends and family.
I want to open by offering LtGen Mattis' apologies for missing this event. Until recently he certainly looked forward to being here, but an unexpected change in a three and four star executive offsite in Washington prevents him from joining you today. I am his recently joined deputy at the First Marine Expeditionary Force at Pendleton, and will have the honor of taking the next Marine rotation to Iraq early next year. I was also General Mattis' deputy once before when he commanded the 1st Marine Division on the march to Baghdad, Tikrit and beyond four years ago, and when we went back into Iraq in March 2004 relieving the 82nd Airborne in Al Anbar Province. I am just two months out of the Pentagon where I served as the Commandant's Legislative Advisor, and deputy advisor to the SECNAV, so I know the Congress and the Secretary's and Commandant's Hill agendas pretty well. I'll be glad to speak to amphibious ship requirements, V-22 Ospreys, VSTOL Joint Strike fighters, a Marine Corps growing by 27,000 or anything else for that matter during the Q+A. |
Ladies and Gentlemen I had a unique experience a few years ago when serving as the Assistant Division Commander, of the 1st Marine Division. We were just south of Iraq along the Iraqi-Kuwaiti border, and poised to launch an attack that would take us over the next three weeks 650 miles into the guts of Iraq, far beyond Baghdad and indeed to Saddam's hometown palace in Tikrit. When the artillery fires commenced just as the sun went down, and the evening sky above us was one endless formation of Marine, Navy and Air Force fighter aircraft speeding north to smash targets deep in Saddam’s vitals, I was sitting taking it all in with my driver Cpl Dave Hardin from Dallas, and with a reporter from the Los Angeles Times. The reporter asked me a question that I'd never considered in my entire 36 years in the Marine Corps as both enlisted man and officer before the asking, but one I took up in my mind when he did. He pointed out the size and capability of the Iraqi forces in front of us that was many, many times bigger than we were in men, tanks, and artillery. He emphasized much to my discomfort the massive supplies of chemical weapons Saddam was thought to have, and the multiple means he had to rain their terrible kind of death upon us. He asked if I'd ever contemplated defeat. If it was even possible? |
Thanks to Cassandra from Villainous Company for the initial read. Check out her entry for an excerpt from Michael Totten's remarkable visit to Ramadi. We are winning indeed.
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September 17, 2007
Godspeed MWSS 473
Marine Mom Becky, KV for her son's unit and denmother to most of the Marines at Camp Pendleton (I think most of them have been to her place for dinner during the past five years) sent this picture of her son taken at Bangor by the Maine Troop greeters. These wonderful people show up whenever a plane loaded with troops hits the tarmac. They provide cell phones, refreshments, hugs, and a last hug or first welcome back to weary troops.
Becky described her son's parting words:
He was confident, raring to go, ready to get on with his mission. I told him to keep his head down and he said "Mom, how the hell can I see the enemy that way!?" Silly Marine.
Godspeed Son, hurry home.

Becky is one of our Operation Santa volunteers, making sure that our Marines and other troops feel some love from home during the holidays.
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September 15, 2007
My Brother - The Marine
Years ago, I looked at pictures of a friend's adorable toddlers and wondered what they would do with their lives. That question was answered recently when I received the following essay, written by the older brother. Toddlers grow up and some grow up to be Marines.
Never have I ever been more proud of a man as I am today of my brother, The Marine. As an older brother who finished high school and moved on to a college education and a division one athletic program I thought I was setting the perfect example for my younger brother. Little did I know that what I was doing was taking an easy route compared to what my brother was willing to do for this country. Growing up, constant harassment was part of being an older brother, but nothing was more important to me than protecting my little brother. Growing up I was his protector. Now he is mine.Before leaving for basic training numerous times I fell to my knees in tears and prayed begging the Holy Spirit to protect my brother in his service. For the first time I felt like I could not protect him. He seemed too young to be serving our country and to weak to be protecting me. I could not have been more wrong. After he left for basic training I struggled once again, wondering what would become of this brother of mine and what it was that he was trying to accomplish. The day I received his first letter all my uncertainties were put aside; he was becoming a man. His voice and vocabulary was expressed at the highest level of maturity and articulation. This once younger brother of mine, who I once shared a bunk bed with as a child, was training to become a protector of me and my country. I continued to receive letters. It was inevitable that he would change, but never in my mind could I ever imagine the young man I grew up with transforming like this. The wording and way he talked about his experience and feelings were amazing. Honor, Courage, and Commitment, the Marine Corp values were coming out in his personality.
Upon his graduation from basic training I had an overwhelming sense of uncertainty. What would he look like? What would he act like? Would he be the same person? The morning of their motivational run I stood in the parking lot adjacent to the parade deck waiting for the answers to my questions. As a shallow roar from the end of the base came into hearing range a chill went throughout my whole body. As the recruits of India Company ran toward us, I could not believe the amount of discipline and attention to detail they had established in such a short time. As the first two platoons passed before me and my family, platoon 3203 came upon us. There stood a man in the fourth row of his platoon. He stood straighter, taller, and with the utmost confidence. Nothing could break his attention. This man was my brother. The brother I thought I could protect for the rest of my life. To make sure nothing would ever happen to him. But my life was now in his hands. As he stood at attention, I could not have felt safer in my own country. These were our future protectors and they were well prepared for anything. These men were about to become the greatest of military professionals in the United States of America; they were becoming Marines.
As the men of India Company moved on with their four mile run that day, my brother became the hero of my life. Before I had strived to become his hero, but that day and forever more he will be mine. Everything I will ever do since that day will been put in perspective: What really is important? Whatever I pursue in my life is directly attributed to the military professionals of this country. My brother is fighting so that I can get married to the woman I love. He is fighting so that I can go to college. He is fighting so that I can attend church and pursue faith in the God I choose.
I could never imagine the responsibility that my brother is about to take on for this great nation. He has put all fear and doubt aside and gone forth as a man to protect our country and there is nothing more respectable than that in a man or woman. At only eighteen years of age, it seems outrageous to send a life of that delicacy into a life of battle but that is exactly what the Marines are fighting for; freedom and the delicacy of life. My brother has become the ultimate protector and I could not be more proud of the man he has become today. Once again he is leaving for more training and I do not know the next time I will see him. But at the same time I feel safer knowing that there are men like my brother, who are all over the world ready to protect me, my family, and my country.
Semper Fidelis.
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September 05, 2007
Operation Marine Corps Kids X 5
Operation Marine Corps Kids continues to send care packages to the families of active duty Marines and other troops, but we get an occasional opportunity to do something special. Here's a post from Delia, who coordinates the program.
Operation Marine Corps Kids is dedicated to supporting the families or all our service men and women.While we continue with our regular collections, I am posting today about a special collection that we are organizing for a soldier who is deployed with the Army in Afghanistan. He and his wife are expecting – not just one, but five children!!!
The couple is adopting five children from Ethiopia. The new mom is currently en route to the US with the kids to get their US citizenship, then they will be going to Germany where her husband is based. We would like to create a special gift package to welcome them into their new family.
Overnight this family will grow from a couple to a family of seven including six year-old twin girls, 4 year-old boy and girl twins, and a one year-old baby girl. Mom will be on her own with the kids until dad completes his tour of duty.
We will be collecting hand-crafted blankets, toys, hats, scarves, mittens, and sweaters - anything that these kids might need to help them feel welcomed and to help them deal with a climate that is a bit cooler than what they may be used to.
If you are interested in making something for these children, please feel free to e-mail me at delia.mck@gmail.com. While we appreciate all donations, we want to organize this one to ensure that all the kids receive an appropriate number of gifts.
So, let's make these kids feel welcome in their new country . . . and also support these amazing parents. Being a single mom during a deployment is hard enough - but adding five new kids is something special. If you aren't crafty but would like to help the family, paypal donations can be made via the Marine Corps Family Foundation - just earmark it for the Operation Marine Corps Kids adoption party. We'll update this regularly, so check back!
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September 02, 2007
General Salanis' Labor Day Message
From the Commanding General - MCRD San Diego comes this message to the Marines under his command:
As we approach Labor Day 2007, Samuel Gompers (founder and longtime president of the American Federation of Labor) reminds us that "All other holidays are in a more or less degree connected with conflicts and battles of man's prowess over man, of strife and discord for greed and power, of glories achieved by one nation over another. Labor Day . . . is devoted to no man, living or dead, to no sect, race, or nation." It is truly a celebration of the social and economic achievement of the American worker.This holiday certainly reflects our economic strength and notes the rewards and benefits of those who labor to create this foundation of industrial wealth that our country retains. For example, in 908, the average factory worker had to labor for more than two years to buy a Model T - more than two years of work to buy a car. Today you can buy a family vehicle for about seven months of salary. This is a result of the industrious efforts of our nation that has enabled us to provide more for Americans.
And it is from our wealth that we have invested in our national defense. It is application of American industry, the development of American technology and the creation of American education to protect the merican dream, and defend American freedom. Let's celebrate our contribution of providing security to preserve the American way of life.
During this Labor Day, reflect upon your contributions, and affirm your core values of honor, courage, and commitment to making the weekend safe. Carefully consider your choices and use operational risk management to make the best decisions to safely celebrate the holiday weekend. Do not allow yourself or your friends to become a statistic. Ensure that Labor Day remains a day of celebrating your hard work and the work of those who have gone before, not a day when you were involved in an incident. Don't drink and drive or allow your friends to drink and drive; use designated drivers.
Have a safe and memorable holiday.
Semper Fidelis,
A. Salinas
Brigadier General,
U.S. Marine Corps
Commanding General
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